Breaking up is hard enough, but getting over a breakup and really moving on is the real challenge. 'There is an art to breaking up with someone,' Audrey Hope, a celebrity relationship expert, tells Bustle. 'If you do what needs to be done, you can sail through it.' But there's a lot to be done. You have to get over the person, you have to get over the circumstances of the breakup — which are often unpleasant— and you have to put yourself back together enough to eventually get back out there.